Why That So

well i was thinking about crushes again. i was thinking how a person wants certain things from in a boy or girl. certain qualities and features that this person must have, but then a person with out one single quality you like is choosen to be your boy/girlfriend. why that so? it makes me frigthen to think what kind of husband i might find. i think this is the first time i acknowledge myself getting married. (^_^) i want to make sure that the man i marry, isnt some closet cunt. all sweet and kind during the courting process, then ring on finger, he turns into worse till death do we part. you really have to know who you marrying. you mustnt have regrets when it come to marriage.